Mix&Match of sex positions and sex toys. Curious?
Couples have the great challenge to overcome time and space. When I say time, I mean the age, boredom and laziness that comes with it. When I say space, I mean distance, finding places where the moments we share get extra value and the connection between the two people which needs to be sustained.
Some positions are more enjoyable than others for men and it goes the same with women. Most of the time the issue lies in the wrong assumption that penetration is what brings women to climax.
The Doggy Style + Pino
The doggy style is a position many women enjoy psychologically, but physically there might be some struggles with it. This position is great for men because they can penetrate with full thrust.
Regarding orgasms, well, more than 80% of women need external clitoral stimulation to orgasm so it’ll come with the right approach. At least, that’s what happened to Lisa.
“Although I start feeling great pleasures, I couldn’t get to the climax, I always had to stimulate myself in the same time which, for some reason, was detaching me of what my partner was doing. When I started using sex toys, things began to change.”
At first, Lisa was concerned that her partner wouldn’t understand, but she was surprised by his openness. Actually, he chose the sex toy!
They started to have a look at toys together for quite some time. Lisa was curious about Fin, the finger vibrator by Dame, as it is easy to handle and can be used by both partners. His boyfriend was more into Pino by Lelo which is a vibrant cock ring. “I didn’t know what I was supposed to feel at the time – Lisa told me – but it was amazing. ” When they were playing the doggy style position, Pino fits perfectly and vibrates so strongly that she can get to climax without exhausting her partner and herself for hours.
The best part of couple toys is that you can relax and be in the moment without worrying about anything else. “At some point I turned my head round and saw his face. Bliss… then I realised that if I can feel the vibration, he damn sure feels it, too.”
Lisa learned another fundamental thing: stimulating yourself or getting extra help is not something that detaches you from your partner, is the way you can enjoy the all experience and be in the moment with him/her.
The Shoulder Holder + Sensation Sync
The position where the female puts her calves on the man’s shoulder (aka The Shoulder Holder).
The pro of this position is that you can observe the pleasure you are both getting out of the experience. Also, looking at each other creates more intimacy and connection between partners.
But, in Vivianne case, she was struggling to not show her irritation.
“I like trying new positions, I’m quite creative; I also believe that one of the best ways to explore sex is to try and get as much pleasure as you can from any position you can think of, but with this one it was more complicated for me. Couldn’t reach my clitoris and got quite frustrated”
Couple toys like WeVibe Sync can help with that position and make your sexual life more enjoyable and more relaxing for your brain too. The vibrator is flexible and made to be worn during penetration to stimulate the clit. If you enjoy also a bit to technology it can be controlled via app or remote. When a friend told me about couple toys I was surprised and excited to try one – Vivianne said – I was hoping they could help. And thank God I bought it! I just love this toy and it helped building the intimacy between me and my partner.
Foreplay or Spoon + Fin
Another sex toy that helps, especially during foreplay, is Fin. It’s a finger vibrator that moves with you but gives your fingers’ tips magic power!
“Sometimes I just don’t have enough time for myself to play with my body and pleasure the way I’d love to. Rare are the moments where my kids are not around or I’m not busy for work or following the other millions thing working mums manage every day. I wanted a toy for me but that I could have used also to play with my husband.” Sarah.
I remember when I had this conversation with Sarah, she was feeling quite sad because her routine just squeezed all her energies and she couldn’t find a way out, but she really wanted to feel her body again. I thought Fin was perfect; first it’s super discreet and even if the kids find it, no big deal. It’s practical, you can take it with you everywhere and for Sarah this feature can be a plus, she doesn’t have to plan that much any more. Last but not leat, it’s perfect for foreplay or for any position that gives you easy reach to your clitoris, like the Spoon!
No matter what you want to change or the new sensations you wish to feel, remember that sex toys are here to help you discovering our body. Be creative and use them the way you want!