monogamy

How To Make Monogamy Work For You

Many same-sex couples I see wonder about monogamy or opening up their relationship. It can be confusing trying to grapple with what it might mean for them. For some couples, monogamy feels just right…

mindful sex

Mindful Sex and Gay Men

Gay men tend not to have mindful sex. They lean towards sex with much distraction, like drugs, alcohol, technology. There is a good reason for it. The gay community has been ostracized for a long tim…